1. Leftover chinese takeout
2. Relative calm in my small pocket of a world in which spontaneous bursts of violent crisis are common
3. Giving myself permission to feel like a bitch
4. Toilet paper
5. That Oskar's a creepy fetishist of a cat whose favourite thing is to escape the apartment so that he can run upstairs to the neighbours, roll around on their carpet, and smell their shoes
Wage a battle against embitterment and take part in 365 days of Grace in Small Things.